Release Stuck Emotions To Improve Your Health (Here’s How)

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As energy naturally flows through your body, it gives rise to emotions…

emotions are the body’s natural energetic release valve.



Often we are tempted to label this as a bad thing…. as something gone wrong if we are feeling something intense. But when energy is flowing through your body — this is never a bad thing.

Change and flow and sensation and emotion are all essential to life.

The body giving rise to emotions and symptoms is a really good thing.

When the energy is flowing unrestricted through your body, you are releasing the old and welcoming in the new and healing happens effortlessly.

It is a natural way for your body to express what energy is flowing through it and to release it.


This is what healing is all about — expressing the energy dynamic of the tissues/chakras/organ systems/emotional body and releasing it.

Giving rise to symptoms is never the problem.

Releasing it… that’s where it gets tricky.


If we could stay in the flow and allow the body to do what it does best — release and naturally re-align with healing — then no symptom or emotion would last forever.

This is harder than it sounds, though… that’s one thing I know for sure as I live in a state of constant stress and uncertainty just like everyone else.

So today let me share with you some tips on how to get into a state of allowing the energy to flow instead of resisting it.


Here are ways to get more release, less resistance:


1. Releasing sadness and grief.


Sadness needs to physically flow through the body in order to release.

You must *feel* the sorrow.

Don’t try to resist it or put it off.

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Instead, get into the state of allowing the flow using this one simple trick:





Water is the ultimate medium of flow on earth, and comprises the majority of our body.

In fact, water is the body’s natural choice of release as well, in the form of tears.

Tears often help facilitate the flow of sorrow through the body and allows it to release more easily.

So one tip is: allow the tears.


Let the water of your tears release your sorrow and lift it from your body.


Can’t cry?

You can still use the power of water to help facilitate the release of your sorrow, worry or grief.


  • Use a hot water bottle full of warm water and hold it on your body where you are feeling the sorrow (chest, abdomen, neck, back…)
  • Take a long hot bath (add some baking soda and apple cider vinegar to turn it into a detoxing experience)
  • Sit in a warm shower and envision the water carrying your sorrow down the drain for you
  • Go for a relaxing swim or soak in a jacuzzi
  • Use steam/humidifiers to help hydrate your head, clearing out the old mental fog and allowing room for the new
  • Drink water — hydrate hydrate hydrate during times of worry or sorrow more than any other time of your life. Let your body be flushed out inside and out and with every urination or bowel movement recognize you are flushing the old energy down the drain and making way for new healing
  • Just can’t get into the flow? Take a nap. Just allow your body to do its thing and rest more than normal… repairing from grief and sorrow takes time and is exhausting… allow your body the down time it needs and don’t put any expectations on the process.



2. Releasing fatigue or depression



The feeling of heavy fatigue or draining depression means your body needs a break…


Not later.


You must to honor this sensation/symptom for the important information it is providing instead of ignoring or resisting it.

Fatigue and depression show up to alert us that we are in a time of healing/repair and not in a time of action.

Help it by:


  • Low key exercise. Respect your body’s need to slow down. Now is not the time for strenuous exercise… honor caring for your body in gentle ways such as yoga, stretching, long slow walks through nature.
  • Get help. You don’t need to do it all alone. Ask for help. Call a friend. Lean on family to help with some of the burdens you are seeking relief from. Here are some more ideas on how to seek out help.
  • Passive body work. Your body needs to get into receiving mode and not giving mode. Your giving mode is burnt out. What I’ve noticed is that most people who struggle with depression are the givers who are giving to everybody but themselves. You DESERVE to give your body the message that there is a time to stop and receive. Get a massage, acupuncture, reiki, physical therapy, a facial, a haircut. Anything that is a passive process for you — let others actively help move that energy through your body and help you on your way to release it.
  • Deeper sleep at night… get some more ideas on this here.


3. Releasing frustration and anxiety



These emotions are a very active state, where you have lots of energy building up inside.

So with this energetic state you generally need to get into a more active state to restore the flow…

…in contrast to the passive allowing state required by sadness, grief, depression and fatigue.


Frustration and anxiety states respond to active release…

…so give some of these a try:


  • Meditation — this is a very active and aware state that puts you in the perfect open-but-alert mind-frame necessary for relief. Focus on taking 5 deep breaths in and out and choose a mantra for the in breathe and the out breath. IF you can do 10 breaths, do 10. Work up to 20, 30, 50 breaths of focused openness:

breathing in: I am lovable, breathing out: I am loved

breathing in: I am safe, breathing out: I am taken care of by God

breathing in: I am protected, breathing out: I am healing

  • Centering exercise — moving the body and quieting the mind is the goal of many gentle, healing practices such as yoga, tai chi, qigong. If your energy feels more intense and will not allow you to settle down enough to do those types of exercise, honor your body’s need for active processing by something a bit more intense like Pilates, karate, kick boxing, or going on a long jog.


  • thank you earthGive to others. Unlike depression and fatigue, the gift of anxiety is the gift of having energy to give and express… and one of the best way to off-gas this is to give to others in need.

Volunteer at a cause that is meaningful to you, start a year of gratitude (doing one act of thankfulness to loved ones or strangers each week and record it in a gratitude journal) or just go out into the world each day asking that you be shown a way you can be of service.

The point here is not to add any more stress into your life — do not do ANYTHING that doesn’t feel right.

This is not a burden, it’s a very simple way to get rid of extra energy/tension.

Consider doing simple things that don’t require a lot of preparation but will allow you to actively process and off gas extra energy. For example, walk along a road in your neighborhood and pick up litter for an hour after dinner. Pick up an extra pizza on your way home from work and give the extra one to a construction crew as you pass (this was my daughter’s favorite “gratitude attack” that we did in our own Year Of Gratitude…) or head to your local SPCA and take some of the dogs on a walk each weekend. In fact…

  • Care for a pet. Caring for a pet is the PERFECT way to allow your energy to flow in a loving and active, yet low stress way. Simply walking your dog every day, spending 30 minutes petting your cat while she purrs on your chest, whistle to a pet bird and teach him your favorite TV show theme song… study after study has shown that pets improve our health simply by being in our lives. During times of anxiety and frustration, loving on a pet a little extra each day gives a heart-centered but simple way to open our heart and allow excess energy to flow.


I hope those illustrations can give you a sampling of ideas on how to take ANY emotion you are feeling, recognize it simply as energy that wants to flow through your body and be released, and honor the message.

Getting into the state of release, whether active or passive, is the solution.


For deeper help getting into the flow of release,

now is the perfect time to do a quick, 5 day detox with me.


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Like I do every fall when the earth begins to transition to cooler temperatures and dive inwards for renewal, I want to dive deeper and detox my own body, from the inside out.


There are a million ways to do this… strict raw food diets and prolonged fasting and colonics and a ton of wonderful different ways to feel like you are starting fall with a new you.

For me, I go with a very easy and very simple detox.



I’m literally aching to do my gentle 5 day detox again, and I’d love to do it with you!



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  • It is very basic and very gentle, perfect for anyone.
  • There is no fasting and no radical rules… just a gentle, safe, uplifting re-aligning with Well-Being.
  • Releasing the old toxins and flushing in health, using a few simple but powerful techniques.
  • A fall fine tuning, from the inside out… together. And that feels good to me.


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Gentle Restart Detox, here I come.

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Happy Fall!

xoxox, Laura